Honing in a superpower when you have multiple sclerosis can seem like a tall order. I’m pretty sure anyone living with a chronic illness wouldn’t consider the possibility of being the proud owner of a “superpower”. Well, I would have to disagree.
Smoothly managing life with MS takes a tremendous amount of pre-planning and thinking ahead because let's face it, we sort of have to be prepared for everything and anything without any moment's notice. I’ve often thought of myself as a good planner. My Husband is the same way. We are just those people who really get our kicks off of planning every second of our day. But the unpredictability of MS can put a dent in predesigned ambitions.
I really recognized just how much energy I actually put into strategic planning this past week when my Husband and I headed to Las Vegas for a long weekend trip to see the fabulous Jerry Seinfeld. Other than the obvious fact that the long-time comedian was fantastic, my ability to smoothly navigate around the burdens of MS proved to be even more fantastic. Yah, I said it! I know that I overthink things but didn’t realize how natural it came to me until returning home and not feeling as awful as I predicted I would.
We planned our day strategically with rest gaps in between events to refuel and rest. I made sure to have a mobility aid nearby in case I needed it and we found ways of walking the strip underground where it was air conditioned and less crowded.
I think when you know exactly what your setbacks are you have a better idea of how to work around them. I made sure to bring a small purse so I wasn’t lugging around a heavy bag all day. Cowboy boots were my goto because they have excellent ankle support and still look flashy with a Vegas vibe outfit, because heels are long gone for me. Benches were my best friend while waiting in lines and I wasn’t shy to ask the person behind me to hold my place while I rested. People are typically pretty cool if you communicate your needs. We’re all human! Even when it came to getting seated at the Colosseum at Caesars Palace, we were there 45 minutes before curtain to avoid big crowds and standing for long periods of time. Pool lounging? You know I found a shady spot to hunker down in because the sun is my nemeses.
Usually during vacations and even long weekend trips we discuss a lot of our preplanning and mapping out the attack but this time was seamlessly automatic. It was as if we both knew the obstacles to avoid and automatically positioned our choices accordingly. Oh, and UBER was our sidekick. I made sure to pack for everything without going overboard and had options in case things went south. Requesting late check out while giving the explanation of disability usually waives the late check out fee, so never be afraid to ask. 1 pm was much kinder to my body than 10 am. We really went with the flow a lot this trip. If I needed to rest, instead of just sitting on a bench for an hour we made sure gelato was involved or an ice coffee. Resting at a slot machine to play virtual blackjack helped too. The game is really a slow crawl and gave me ample time to refuel. I’m the proud owner of a 61 cent game voucher that I refused to cash in purely for souvenir purposes.
Vacations will be different for everyone. I know everyone has their own way of doing things and each pack operates differently. But I’m solidly convinced that strategic planning is a superpower that anyone with MS can master. Recognize exactly what gets in your way and shift around it to avoid pure and utter disaster. It’s completely possible to enjoy your trip and come home not feeling like you just had your soul sucked out.